Is 6 Wheels a good fit for you?
6 Wheels is ideal for any battle-weary co-parent who wants to take the lead to make change happen
Does predicting negative things your co-parent will do then change your own behaviour?
Eg, "I predict my co-parent will ignore me if I say "hello", so therefore I don't bother saying "hello""
Do you find yourself catastrophizing and imagining the worst?
Eg, "I know if we do a joint birthday for the kids it will be a disaster"
Do you instinctively feel stress or apprehension when you communicate with your co-parent?
Eg, "My co-parent has emailed me and before I read it I already feel a sense of dread"
Are you worn out by your current way of managing co-parenting and can't see how anything will change?
Eg, "Nothing works and the years ahead of co-parenting look pretty bleak"
Could you benefit from the support of a 6 week research-based programme to kickstart a new co-parenting journey, with weekly 1hr video calls and support?
Are you ready to break free of the status quo, and step forward as a leader to pro-actively inspire change in your co-parenting relationship?
"In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer"
~ ALBERT CAMUS ~
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IT ALL STARTS WITH YOU
3 things that will transform your co-parenting
01
Identity
6 Wheels is the process of intentionally becoming the co-parent you want to be.
Fortunately your identity is not conditional on anyone's else's behaviour or opinion of you.
Simply step into the space and claim the identity you want.
02
Behaviour
6 Wheels is an exploration of understanding behaviour, both yours and your co-parent's.
Then taking that understanding and deliberately and strategically choosing behaviours that align with your values and identity and also influence positive change in your co-parenting relationship.
03
The Stories We Tell
6 Wheels is looking at your co-parenting situation with fresh eyes and understanding that life isn't events, it's your interpretations of events.
The stories we tell to explain events and behaviours drive outcomes. So what is the most helpful story you can be telling, and enacting, that will lead to your goal of collaborative co-parenting.
Auckland Workshop
6 Wheels Co-parenting workshops continue to be held periodically throughout the year at the Auckland Women's Centre.
These workshops are provided to the Centre at no-cost and are a way for me to give back to the Women's Centre who have supported me in the past, and support women in my community.
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This 6-session workshop series is a lively, interactive group experience in which you will learn and apply the tools and tactics you need to influence positive change in your co-parenting relationship.
Auckland Women's Centre Workshop
Saturday 02 March 2024: 10-2pm; followed by 5 x 1hr evening Zoom sessions
Small supportive group environment (6-10 people)
Book directly with Auckland Women's Centre
$10 - $55 sliding scale
One-to-One Online 6 Wheels Programme
"Turn your wounds into wisdom"
Oprah Winfrey
Join me in a personalised 6 week co-parenting programme and take the lead to transform your co-parenting situation.
6 Wheels Co-parenting is a fun, experimental and fresh approach to strategically turn your adversity into a source of advantage.
BENEFITS
Start whenever you like
6x weekly 1hr one-to-one online coaching
6x short weekly video modules, including optional Q&A
Individual focus on your unique situation
NZD$465
This one-on-one programme is ideal for anyone who feels "stuck" in their situation, whether it's mild conflict or has escalated to lawyers and possibly Family Court.
BENEFITS OF DOING 6 WHEELS NOW
1
SAVE MONEY
Lawyers are expensive - I've been there. Every letter from your lawyer triggers a reply and then you're paying for another letter - it's never-ending.
Aside from the legal costs of conflict, there's also the financial cost of the lack of co-parenting collaboration. Imagine what you would save if you could share resources with your co-parent, or do each other favours?
2
AVOID COURT
Family Court is stressful - I've been there too! It's also time-consuming with all the preparation, and the uncertainty experienced while you wait for a court date. And of course going to Court means you're putting big areas of your life into the control of someone else.
How much better to be able to take the lead and positively transform your co-parenting relationship?
3
ENHANCE WELL-BEING
"What's good for the hive is good for the bees", and similarly, what's good for your co-parenting relationship is good for you, your children, and your co-parent.
Choosing positive co-parenting as your goal means consistently choosing behaviours in pursuit of this top-level goal, and choosing not to get distracted by engaging in triggers, skirmishes or wanting to "win" lower level goals.
Without thinking about your co-parent, and thinking only of the co-parent you want to be:
6 Wheels IS for you if...
You want to be the type of co-parent who is kind and understanding
You want to be the type of co-parent who is helpful
You want to be the type of co-parent who is grateful
You want to be the type of co-parent who communicates well
You want to be the type of co-parent who is flexible
You want to be the type of co-parent who is cooperative
It's important to me that you, me and 6 Wheels are a good match for each other.
6 Wheels ISN'T for you if...
You feel physically unsafe interacting with your co-parent
When you read the 'Principles of 6 Wheels', it doesn't align with the way you want to live your life
The 12 minute video introducing myself and the course outline doesn't resonate with you
You feel there are no improvements to be made in your own co-parenting behaviour
